tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-77491249770353295042024-03-13T13:06:44.326+00:00The Struggling CatholicI am a female Catholic who loves to be a catholic and couldn't imagine being anything else, struggles to find peace within her faith at times. So here is a blog for me to vent feelings and try and find some answers.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-44947831737119368512015-10-05T19:05:00.001+01:002015-10-05T19:05:32.620+01:00Things have changed<br />
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There are a lot of things within the Catholic church I have struggled with over the years and either have found peace with this or found a way of living with the contradiction within myself.<br />
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However, recently I have found myself in a place I thought I would never find myself. I am fast falling in love with a guy. Which within itself is causing issues within me for different reasons. However, from my faith point of view this is causing conflict that I am struggling to reconcile within myself.<br />
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1. He has been married before, has been separated for quite a while but as of yet not got a divorce. The fact he has been married makes it hard for me to have a church wedding. Yes, I know I'm jumping the gun a bit here but he is someone I am thinking like that with.<br />
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2. Contraception: I don't want to be a mother... I don't know if I ever want to be a mother and when I was single and happy to stay like that for the rest of my life this was never an issue. Now it is and I don't know what to do. <br />
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3. Sex outside of marriage! We are seeing each other but I have yet to take that big step (for me) of sleeping with him, for he will be the first person I will have slept with. This is a bit of a sticking point for me. The Catholic church is quite clear about sex before marriage and about sleeping with married people.<br />
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4. He's (still technically) married. He becomes an adultery, and I'm destroying a marriage. Sort of, they have been separated for quite a while.<br />
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These were things I've never had to think about. I was the singleton from now until the day I die. I made my peace with it, and now this guy has come along and I have to reassess things and I know what I want to do, I know what the church says but I do, and have done for a while, thought they are out dated with their thoughts and believes and have had many a conversation with priests and nuns about this but at the end of the day the church is the church.<br />
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I have no idea what I am going to do. I need advice please... and prayer. I am going to have to pray about this a lot. CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-52571942548855424692012-11-18T01:01:00.001+00:002012-11-18T01:14:23.660+00:00A realisation.<div><p>The Catholic Church would find itself more favourable postion if it would stop concentrating on the superifcial side of the faith (such as bells, smells, pomp and circumstance), stop hating anything thats different or outside of its timy tunnel vision brain, and actually went into the community and supported and love it. At the moment the church sits behind its walls and pretends that the real world means nothing to them. Perhaps we should remind them that the Lord wants us to love our neighbour as we love urselves, and that we are meant to be sevents as well as leaders. The old boys club sitting in luxuary in Rome, really should out and spend a year or three in the real world, not in a parish but actually in the community where they can serve.  Then once they've been in the real world they explain why its okay to say woman are only good for traditinal female role and why those of the same sex can not get married, and why is it the chrch believes that its a homosexual couple will ruin the sanctaty of marriage. Marriage was ruined years a go, dont blame the homosexuals, blame the hetrosexuals who have forgotten what it means to be in a loving relationship.</p>
<p>Im beginning to get to the point where, I love God, he is amazing and does great things, but organise religion is ruining everything because they are driven by the wrong things, power and money rather than love and compassion.</p>
<p>Just saying.......</p>
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You can't love who you want to love in times like these<br />
Homophobia- the worst disease<br />
Love how you want to love and love who you please</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: #c27ba0; overflow: hidden; text-align: right; text-decoration: none;">Homophobia: Chumbawamba</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;">It's been an interesting evening. I went out with some people from work as a bit of a goodbye evening. It was really nice, but it's amazing how homophobic some of these people are. Devote catholic's but really homophobic so we had a long conversation about it. Once again I was asked if I was gay, to which I gave my normal response. I will fall in love with whom I fall in love with be it male or female, it doesn't really bother me. Well one lass jaw dropped to the floor, you could see her saying it was a sin. Her whole attitude changed. I can't believe just how bigoted some catholic's can be... then I thought about this for a bit longer and actually the catholic church is unbelievably prejudice and not just to the homosexual community.... all sort of things. It made me question why I'm still a catholic. </div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;">I believe in God, I believe he wants the best for us all. I believe that we are all put on this planet to love one another, to be kind to each other and most of all to help each other to live a better and easier life. So why does religion seem to make this so hard. People base their prejudice on their faiths, and yes I do appreciate this is just an excuse for what's already there, but why don't religions actually help with this. They just add fuel to the fire. If the Catholic church were to come out and say that although it doesn't agree with the sexual act between to gay men (and it's just men, not the woman), they should say that homosexuals are still welcome into the church and can still be apart of the catholic community. Jesus invited all into the arms, he loved everyone and helped everyone. So why can't people do that.... christians seem to be the worst at living what they like to preach. </div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;">I know I'm not perfect, I know that I get it wrong, I know I hurt people when I don't mean to, I know that I can be intolerant at times, I know I can be really impatient with people, but I know I try. There are so many 'religious' people out there who although say are full of 'the Love of Christ' are actually full of hate. I taints the faith, it taints all they touch...... It makes me really wonder why I still bother with religion. I should just study the bible by myself, I should love God, pray and learn things myself but not bother with the whole organised religion.</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;"><br />
</div><div style="background-color: transparent; border: medium none; color: black; overflow: hidden; text-align: left; text-decoration: none;">I'm so confused... and full of pain.</div>CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-11161168633983722492011-02-20T19:36:00.000+00:002011-02-20T19:36:17.373+00:00The Creed<span style="font-size: medium;"> We believe in one God, <br />
the Father, the Almighty,<br />
maker of heaven and earth,<br />
of all that is, seen and unseen.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"> We believe in one Lord, Jesus Christ,<br />
the only son of God,<br />
eternally begotten of the Father,<br />
God from God, Light from Light,<br />
true God from true God,<br />
begotten, not made,<br />
of one being with the Father.<br />
Through him all things were made.<br />
For us and for our salvation<br />
he came down from heaven:<br />
by the power of the Holy Spirit<br />
he became incarnate from the Virgin Mary,<br />
and was made man.<br />
For our sake he was crucified under Pontius Pilate;<br />
he suffered death and was buried.<br />
On the third day he rose again<br />
in accordance with the Scriptures;<br />
he ascended into heaven<br />
and is seated at the right hand of the Father.<br />
He will come again in glory<br />
to judge the living and the dead,<br />
and his kingdom will have no end.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: medium;"> We believe in the Holy Spirit, the Lord, the giver of life,<br />
who proceeds from the Father and the Son.<br />
With the Father and the Son<br />
he is worshipped and glorified.<br />
He has spoken through the Prophets.<br />
<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">[We believe in one holy catholic and apostolic Church.]</span></i><br />
We acknowledge one baptism for the forgiveness of sins.<br />
We look for the resurrection of the dead,<br />
and the life of the world to come. AMEN.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;">I believe in all that God and Jesus stands for, how ever the institution known as the catholic church can just fuck right off. </span>CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-31925666868178841082011-01-09T20:15:00.000+00:002011-01-09T20:15:56.412+00:00Silence<div style="text-align: left;">I am struggling with my prayer life at the moment. I have always felt that I can talk to God, I have been able to feel his love on the whole. I have gone through times in my life when I don't feel him usually because I've stopped looking. Even when I walk away, when my hated blinds me, I can still feel him, hand on my shoulder waiting patiently for me to return.<i> </i></div><div style="text-align: right;"><br />
</div><div style="text-align: right;"><i>"The interior man is aware that times of silence are demanded by love of God. As a rule he needs a certain solitude so that he may hear God 'speaking to his heart.'</i> <i>It must be stressed that a silence which is a mere absence of noise and words, in which the soul cannot renew its vigor, would obviously lack any spiritual value. It could even be harmful to fraternal charity, if at that moment it were essential to have contact with other. On the contry, the search for intimacy with God involves the truly vital need of a silence embracing the whole being, both for those who must find God in the midst of noise and confusion and for contemplatives. Faith, hope and a love for God which is open to the gifts of the Spirit, and also a brotherly love which is open to the mystery of others, carry with them an impereative need for silence."</i></div><div style="text-align: right;"><b>Vatican II pg 701</b></div><br />
I've been reading this over and over and over again lately. I really don't understand it. On the one hand I feel like it's telling me that the only way to be close to God is through silence and it's a must within the Catholic faith. However, I also read it as saying that silence is different to each individual. As individuals we have to discover our own silence, in what ever form that is, and allow ourselves to experience God through that.<br />
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With the silent prayer that we do in community, I have never felt so far away from God in my life. I used to have a great prayer life, I used to talk to him daily, Mass was a highlight of the week. Now though there is nothing. No silence. No love. No light. No dark. Just nothing.<br />
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I wish someone could show me why silence is such a big freaking deal. Why does it make you closer to God? All it's going for me, is making me not sleep, making me feel like a real freak, making me hate myself, making me jealous, making me frustrated.... why can't my personal prayer time be something that works for me so that I can have that relationship with God.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-23473741402283252302010-11-13T00:13:00.000+00:002010-11-13T00:13:40.889+00:00PrayerPrayer is something that I've never overly struggled with. From a young age I've always prayed to God, I've always got answers.... even if they are not the answers I want or expect. The best way I find to pray is by playing music, whilst I meditate on the day and thanking God for the amazing day and any awesome events. In also ask God to guide me through times I struggle with. As I'm meditating on these things lines or words from the songs I'm listening to will become dominate in my mind. This is God talking to me. Sometimes I like the answers I get, sometimes I don't. Always though I feel refreshed and enjoy the time I get to spend with God.<br />
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However since I started my new job (which is a catholic retreat centre) we have community prayer and I am not allowed to do this whilst in community prayer. In stead I have to sit in complete silence, for most days 30 minutes but once a week it's an hour. <br />
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Silence and I have never ever got on. The more I'm in silence, the worse things get for me. So when I sit through half hour of prayer it has a very negative side effect on me, apart from having more energy than I know what to do with, it also causes my brain to go on overdrive. As a result I don't sleep well. I usually sleep for about an hour or so and that's it. So as you can imagine I get unbelievably tired. At the weekend I do try and catch up on sleep but I have so much to do that I really can't cope with sleeping for the 15 odd hours that I need each night to catch up. <br />
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My boss and his boss are always trying to tell me that silence is a good thing, that it does people good. I said it has a detrimental effect on me, but they want me to keep going, so I do. I went to see the doctor to try and see if I could get an official ADHD diagnosis that would mean I didn't have to sit in silence. It will take a few weeks to get the referal, and maybe a few weeks after that.... which sucks. So I continue to go to prayer. I started off fidgeting chronically, after a while I stopped doing that, I started bashing my head against the wall, I didn't notice at first but other people did.<br />
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So last night I took the decision to go to bed at 4.30pm and miss prayer. I made it clear why I was missing prayer and just went straight to bed. I slept through until 7.30am. I feel wonderful today. Amazing in fact. To day my boss' boss came up to me and said that for today I could miss silent prayer and we would talk about it on Monday. Can't wait to see what will happen with that!!!!<br />
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I can't believe it's so hard to try and pray in a way that does not have a detrimental effect on me. I can't believe what they want me to do, adn try to make out it's my fault. They keep saying things like we are made exactly how we're meant to be and we shouldn't to change, but that's all they want me to do. They say that we should pray as we can not as we can't and they expect me to do that every day and then some.... it's just ridiculous! I don't know what they hell I'm suppose to do about all this all.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-42265315969496412012010-09-16T21:52:00.000+01:002010-09-16T21:52:29.204+01:00PrayerI understand the importance of prayer within my faith.<br />
I understand the importance of prayer for being a Catholic<br />
I know the joy of prayer<br />
I have experienced the power of prayer<br />
I enjoy a praying.......<br />
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....providing I am allowed to do this in my own way. I am now living in a Catholic community, a life choice but also due to the work they do, and my calling to do that work. I have no qualms praying as part of a community or that we make it a daily thing. However I am struggling with the fact that they dictate the way we pray. I understand the need of community prayer, I understand the joy that this brings, the support we offer each other and how it brings us together as a community. However what I really dislike is the fact our director and assistant director have decided how we pray. Most of the prayer times are quiet and reflective. Even praise and worship is quite and sedate. After that we have half an hour of 'personal reflection time' but this is done in silence in the chapel.<br />
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The closet way I feel close to God, is to put my ipod on, select shuffle and go for a long walk in the countryside by myself. Sitting in 'reflective prayer' or sitting in silence in 'personal reflection time' does nothing for me and in fact makes me very restless. <br />
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I brought this up with my assistant director (and line manager) and I was just told to deal with it. I am not allowed to have any music to help me feel closer to God. I am not allowed to go for a walk.... I just have to sit there reading a book 'to help with personal reflection'. It doesn't work for me. Even if I read a fiction book in my own time I still have the TV or music going so that I can concentrate.<br />
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My line manager has made me feel like a bad Catholic because of this. Surely because adoration does not allow me to be close to God, because meditation does not allow me to be close to God, because reading and meditating on the bible does not allow me to be close to God, because I need music to help me feel close to God, because I need music to study the bible.... Am I a bad catholic, should I be made to feel I am wrong. <br />
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Why should be judge my 'catholicness' because of the way I pray... because I need something more active to be quiet with God. To hear God and to be with God.<br />
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Other than that, I'm really enjoying myself.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-73769235489877810942009-12-06T22:16:00.000+00:002009-12-06T22:16:16.004+00:00*Ding* momentIt's quite strange but today has been the first day that my mother and I have has an honest to goodness conversation about where we stand with our faith, to find that we are in the same place. But it was also during this conversation that I worked out what it was about my faith that I struggled with so much and why I find it exceptionally hard to go to Mass every week. So I'm going to try and talk about it here and see if I can voice it accurately. <br />
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I have worked for the Catholic church for the past 16 months, my mother had worked for the church for 26 years. We have both been screwed over. I can't go into a lot of detail but my mother took them to an industrial tribunal and won, and I'm leaving my job with a song in my heart and a smile on my face. <br />
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We have also discovered that they amount of hypocrisy with in the church is unbelievable. The priests have no idea how the real world works and they don't want to know. The further up in the echelons you go the worse it is. They just don't care about their workers or volunteers. A lot of the parishes just don't care about health and safetly, the well being of their volunteers (or staff if they have any). They just live in this little catholic bubble and ignore what is happening in the real world. Which is so dangerous. Not just because people can get seriously hurt and all the could come after (law suits, bad press.... etc), but because people in the outside world can not take those who work within the catholic church seriously. <br />
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I have been extremely lucky that I have only worked for the Catholic church for 16 months, but even that has effected my job prospects. I have been applying for so many jobs since June. When they come back to me saying they are not offering me an interview, I do ask why. They do not see that I have done any work over the past year since I work for the Catholic church. Whilst working in the Catholic church they will not pay for any training that I should be getting (child protection, health and safety etc) so I am behind in training and no one is willing to pay for me to get caught up. Also many of them see as working for the catholic church as playing.<br />
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My mother has also found that she has had the same problem. No one will take her seriously. They see that she has worked for the church for 26 years but has no certificate or qualifications about what she has done over that time. She worked damn hard and yet no one outside of the church will touch her with a barge pole to allow her to get a job.<br />
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The church needs to change this if they want to survive. I can't go to mass at the moment because if I try I just think about 'the boys club' that goes on, the ridiculous politics that happen. Very few of the higher echelons get where they are because they are doing good work and have good parishes etc. It's about who you know, who's palms have been crossed with silver.<br />
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On a surface parish level, things are good within the church and if I don't look any deeper than that I can deal with the catholic church and all that it holds. However, that's not all the church is, there is a lot more to it and it's that I have really issues with.<br />
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I don't hate God, I am not walking away from my faith and my relationship with him, or how I live my life. I will always live a Catholic life, however I just can't walk into a church with joy in my heart and wanting to sit there.<br />
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I have been gravely hurt by the church, not God, but the human side of it. I hope one day I can come to terms with that and go back to church and celebrate the mass, be apart of a parish and all that it holds. When I first started missing mass I felt guilty. Now I feel really stressed at the thought of going to mass, because I feel that it's pure hypocrisy. The church does not care, it does not want the best, it just wants to look after 'The Boys' and ensure that there are 'mugs' who are willing to bow down to them and do their bidding. Well this is one person who is no longer willing to do that. This is one person, who just wanted to serve our Lord and help young people to know God as I have known God, who isn't coming back for a while.<br />
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The hurt has got to pass, before I can let the healing begin. I just don't know how long that is.<br />
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One thing is for sure, I'm never working for the catholic church ever, ever again.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-80925121379233760062009-10-29T13:27:00.001+00:002009-10-29T13:27:57.851+00:00Community<div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I grew up in an amazing parish and have yet to come accross another parish which is as vibrate, loving or as big a commnunity feel that my home parish has. The parish priest there has spent the last 30 years turning this parish into a wonderful disciple parish, long before the bishops said that this is what parishes should be doing! How's that for insightful.<br />
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My home parish I will always speak fondly of because they are my family and my friends. Most of the teenagers now are the children I used to babysit for, the youth club which I help start at 12 years of age is still going stronger than ever. This parish has been there for me physically and emotionally and without their love and fellowship I would not be where I am today.<br />
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This is what I wish for every Catholic to experience. To belong to a parish, not to just attend mass once a week but to actually belong and feel as though they are a valid part of that community. <br />
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As Catholic’s we should be looking out for people within our parishes, we should know at the very minimum those who attend the mass’ we regularly attend. We should support each other through voluntary work as well as financial support towards the costs of running a parish. I often hear parents say that there should be more for young people within the parish, and then very few people step forward to organise and run these events. Times have changed and no longer is it acceptable that we just open the doors for our young people. These days there are risk assessments to fill out, health and safety to conform to and volunteers should have some training in how to work with young people.<br />
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I grew up in a parish that focus very much on intergenerational work. The young people would support events within the parish be it running a stall at the Christmas Fate, make tea and coffee for those working at the Christmas Fate, help with the setting up and the pulling down, cover stalls for comfort breaks…. All with a willing heart and a smile on their face. And why did they do this, because the parish supported the young people in their endeavours. The youth club always had help, when fundraising events happened the parish would support the young people. The young people would sit together throughout the mass, they would participate with ministries within mass, there is a successful youth SVP… all because these young people felt as though they were important and worthwhile part of the parish. Also because they have great role models. When you’re in a parish were those who volunteer their services are in the majority of course you want to do something, but if your in a parish where volunteering your services are in the minority how are young people meant to learn what being in service is about.<br />
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A parish like this is few and far between and it’s such a shame. For it is because of this parish that I have a strong faith and a passion to work with parishes to help have a successful youth ministry. Since I have left my home parishes I have become part of no less than four parishes, all of which have barely been friendly, I’ve had to constantly make the first move to introduce myself and try and be part of the parish and to be honest it gets more than a little disheartening. I have to now go out and join another parish and I’m not sure I have the strength at the moment to put in that energy to try and become part of the parish, I am hoping that they will make the first move and make me feel welcome so that I want to put the time and energy into it.<br />
If we can not have a strong community with in our parishes how can we as Catholic’s go out into the world and show them the love of God. So take a look around you during mass, how many people do you know, is there anyone missing who usually turns up. Do you know of someone who is housebound and may like a visit or help with shopping. Charity begins at home.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">What really makes me laugh is the older generations are forever saying 'the young need things to do' 'why do we keep loosing the youth' and it's because the older generation don't like to help out. The youth can not come together is a group and run their own activities the world around does does not allow this. The older generations have to step forward and give a helping hand. I look around a lot of the parishes that I work in and only around 1 - 2% of those who attend mass actually do any sort of volunteering within the parishes and this includes those who undertake ministries (Eucharistic, Music, Liturgy etc). It makes my heart ache. How can you have a parish community when you know next to no one in the mass you attend (I am aware that one of my parishes have a weekend attendance of around 3000 people), when you don't help out at least one a month with something that is going on with in the parish.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I understand that when you have a family that time is precious, but surely if you would like your child to be brought up with a love of the Catholic faith and not just something that they attend once a week (or less in some cases) have time to explore one's faith should be a natural part of the family dynamics. Encouraging your young person to go to the church youth group or the youth SVP etc should be a must but as parents you should at least volunteer to help out these groups at least once a term. That works out at one evening every three months. Surely it can't be that hard to arrange something like that if the Catholic faith allowing your children to enjoy and love the faith.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Again an example of my home parish, there is a 'good Catholic family' in my parish, I say this with a smile on my face as child number 7 or possibly 8 was born last year. The children are a variety of ages the eldest being around 15 years old. This is a good solid family, each child has their own interested, but this family go to church regularly and participate within the church community. I am sure the children are so involved because the parents are.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Remember adults that you are the young people's role model. If you are participating within your parish your children are more likely to, if you don't participate please don't complain because your children don't. Think about what sort of vibe you are giving your child about the church. I'm not just talking to parents and their children, I'm also talking to all those within the parish. I have attended four parishes since I moved out of my mother's and none have been as friendly as my home parish. None have been as active as my home parish. My home parish have activities going on within the parish but also look at the community around them and help in the local community.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I am trying to find a free weekend when I can attend my new parish (I'm either working or at my mothers'), but looking at their website they don't have a lot on unless your a young person going through the sacramental programme.<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">I would love to be able to work within a parish and help in creating a discipleship parish but the catholic church does not have money for things like that. Other denominations ask a tithe from their members the Catholic church doesn't. A lot of non catholics don't realise this but our priests are not paid. They are supported by the community and they live on what ever the church community gives them. There is a larger pot of money they can tap into but that money must be paid back over time. <br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Anyway I'm not sure this rant actually makes sense fully but the point I make is that why isn't there a better feeling of community within the Catholic church. The Catholic Church say that a catholic must go to mass once a week because one can not be fully emmersed within their faith by themselves, they must come together as a community to celebrate the faith and all that Jesus and God have to offer and to support one another in that..... so what happened?<br />
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</div><div style="font-family: "Helvetica Neue",Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;">Matthew 25:31-46<br />
Luke 13:31-35<br />
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</div>CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7749124977035329504.post-1256826285595089942009-10-23T13:52:00.001+01:002009-10-23T14:22:57.033+01:00IntroductionI have found myself over the years struggling more and more with my faith. Well not my faith exactly as I am a Catholic and I will always be a Catholic and there is nothing in the 'verse that can take that away from me. What I am struggling with is how the Catholic faith is played out with those in power within the church, some of the teachings of the church and how the church is viewed and treated not just by those looking in at the church but more shockingly those within the church.<br />
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I don't feel that I have anywhere to turn to express my feelings, to get peoples thoughts on this or even some support from others who say 'yes... I feel the same way you do'. Instead I am holding the frustration and angst in and it's not doing me any favours, especially since I work for the Catholic Church.... although it does look as though I'm being made redundant soon because funding has become an issue.<br />
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I will post as often as I can when I can get any thoughts on to paper. Hopefully having this space to rant and rave will help me become stronger in my faith and perhaps meet a few people who have the same thoughts and feelings as me or even meet some people who can help me put my frustrations to bed or help me come to terms with how I'm feeling so it doesn't become a big problem for me. I do love being Catholic I just wish I didn't get do annoyed by the institutional church.CfMnhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17403432469834274392noreply@blogger.com2